Each month author Lucy Harmer dedicates her journal entries to the theme of “transformative and inspirational living” – finding the fun, magic and laughter in everyday occurrences! She explores ideas, thoughts and quotes from her two books, Discovering Your Spirit Animal and Shamanic Astrology.
February 2010
Your Perfect Match…
Using Shamanic Astrology to find your Valentine
© Copyright 2010 Lucy Harmer
As Valentine’s Day approaches, this month the focus is on relationships. Valentine’s Day is particularly special this year, as February 14 brings with it the new moon ruled by the shamanic astrological sign of Wolf: be prepared for your emotions to be intensified! If you are in a romantic relationship, expect heightened sensuality. In a more fiery partnership, tempers could run high. If you are apart from your loved ones on this day, you may feel the separation more keenly. Whichever spirit animal sign you are, be prepared for an emotional roller coaster ride!
You can find out more about the characteristics of each spirit animal sign in my book Shamanic Astrology. The descriptions of each animal sign include a dedicated section on love – exploring how that particular sign behaves in relationships. They can be quite revealing!
To give you a taster, I have summarized some of the main traits of each spirit animal sign below. See if you can find some tips to help you win the heart of your Valentine…
(To discover your spirit animal sign, and that of your partner/admirer check the table at the end of this article).
Falcon: Falcon people are passionate, intense and spontaneous in love. They don’t like hanging around; they know what they want and need to be immediately satisfied. They like partners who are joyful, active and spirited, who are able to make sparks fly!
Beaver: Beaver people are loving, generous and have great sensuality. They are attentive lovers. To give a Beaver person the ideal Valentine’s Day, take them out for a delicious meal in a romantic setting. Beavers also need emotional security, so make sure you tell them that you love them.
Deer: Deer people need to be intellectually stimulated by their partners. They hate to be bored and become mischievous if their mind isn’t kept busy. They are masters at the art of flirting and seduction! In order to please a Deer person, make sure you give them lively conversation; the more you can intrigue them the better.
Woodpecker: Woodpecker people make loving and attentive partners; they are very emotional and have lots of love to give. Woodpecker’s ideal Valentine’s date would be in a comfortable setting where they feel safe and cocooned. A nice cozy meal in your local Italian pizzeria, or a delicious home cooked meal would be perfect.
Salmon: Salmon people are exuberant in love. They like to play games and enjoy the art of seduction. Sensual and charismatic, the ideal Valentine’s date for Salmon would be being whisked away for a surprise evening in a dramatic setting – take them to the theater, spend the weekend in a cliff-top castle, book a romantic boat trip – anything that shows off their natural flamboyance!
Brown Bear: Underneath Brown Bear’s natural reserve and elegant appearance sleeps a tender and sensual being. In order to help a Brown Bear person get in touch with their feelings, create a loving, warm and trusting environment. Create a sensual environment to dive beneath their cool exterior – you might very well be surprised!
Raven: Although they can be indecisive in other matters, in love Raven people know what they want. Their nature is romantic and idealistic and they enjoy the subtle game of seduction. Sometimes Raven people are so anxious to please they forget their own needs. For the perfect Valentine’s date do something you know will really please them, find out their innermost dreams.
Snake: Snake people are passionate and experience their intimate relationships intensely! They are also secretive and like an air of mystery. To seduce a Snake, keep them guessing. Go all out in your seduction game; give them a little bit of flamboyance and a little bit of mystery. Heighten their emotions in this way and you may experience some of Snake’s legendary libido!
Owl: Owl people love exploring the world in search of adventure and their attitude towards love is also exploratory and spontaneous! To capture an Owl’s fancy, surprise them; do something adventurous and unusual. Even better, tell them to pack their suitcase and take them on a mystery trip, without telling them where they will be going. Use your imagination!
Snow Goose: Snow Goose people love tenderness and have unfathomable reserves of love to give, but they often have difficulty expressing their deepest feelings. The full moon on Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to dive a little deeper and help them to express their sensuality. To capture a Snow Goose heart, make them laugh and give them a lot of emotional reassurance. Create a quiet setting – nothing flash. They just want to know you care.
Otter: Otter people’s intuition can make them passionate and ardent lovers. However, they often feel the need to intellectualize their love. Constantly seeking independence, Otter people hate to be bored. For Valentine’s Day, create an evening which will stimulate them; take them to see a show, go dancing – or even bowling! Otters love to play and have fun.
Wolf: This is a very special Valentine’s Day for Wolf as it falls on the Wolf new moon. Wolf people will be especially romantic, sentimental and highly sensitive at this time. Shower them with love, kindness and affection and show them lots of tenderness. Create a romantic setting and give them lots of small gifts – you may find a whole new side to them, and a much deeper level to your relationship.
I wish you a fantastic Valentine’s night! By the way, if you are not in a relationship at the present moment, the Wolf new moon on Valentine’s Day is the ideal time to attract new relationships – so do go out and have fun!
Love and blessings,
Lucy
Table of Spirit Animal Signs:
To find your spirit animal sign, just locate your birthday from the dates below, according to your place of birth. If you were born north of the equator (e.g., USA, Canada, Europe), then look for your date of birth in the column headed “Northern Hemisphere.” If you were born south of the equator (e.g., Australia, New Zealand, South Africa), then look for your date of birth in the column headed “Southern Hemisphere.”
Shamanic Astrology is available for purchase directly through NorthAtlanticBooks.com, as well as major book stores and online retailers.
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